Real talk: Shopping for the LGBTQ people in your life might feel like small potatoes this year. With the recent threats to the federal recognition of transgender folks, most queer wish lists probably read more like a Zoe Leonard poem than a letter to Santa, meaning it's critical for family members — biological, logical or otherwise — to keep showing up. If you want to throw in something gift-wrapped with all of that affirmation and love, here are 10 Technicolor ideas.
Gender neutral bathroom sign
Designed by artist Edie Fake, this bathroom sign is perfect to hang on the door of your home's loo - which, surprise, has probably been gender-neutral this whole time! $10, www.otherwild.com
"Everyone's Gay" Dish Towel
Tea towels are the Ina Garten of textiles - they appear a bit more refined and polished, but you just know they get freaky. Case in point: this cheeky towel. $16.95, www.fishseddy.com
Celestial Glitter Duo
The government might allow discrimination based upon gender, but glitter doesn't have time for that nonsense. This shimmery set comes from Fluide, a new cruelty-free makeup line designed for all skin tones and modes of self-actualization. $20, www.fluide.us
"Queer Sex" by Juno Roche
It's not too early to make that New Year's resolution - why not commit to more conversations about sex, intimacy and the spectrum of identities? This new book from U.K.-based trans activist Juno Roche is a great place to begin! $18.95, Amazon
Pronoun pin
Asking for someone's pronouns is a polite way to begin the conversation - "My pronouns are they/them. What are yours?" - but this lapel pin does all the talking and comes in a variety of settings. $10, www.wildfang.com
Tyler Wallach hoodies
From Tyler Wallach, the N.Y.-based artist who identifies as the "1988 Lovechild of Keith Haring and Lisa Frank," this saturated, erratic hoodie offers a whole new take on the classic colors of the pride flag. $65, tylerwallachstudio.bigcartel.com
Fruta Party Print
Say no to gatekeeping - the practice of determining who's queer enough and who isn't - with this vitamin-packed print. $60, www.valfre.com
White Male Tears Hydrating Face Mask
Ms. Andry's Bath House has what your skin needs with this willow bark and hyaluronic acid-infused mask, ideal for keeping dry patches, oil and sexism at bay. $16, www.msandry.com
Queer lit pillows
Inspired by the most iconic book covers in queer lit, these hand-embroidered pillows are just made for curling up with some Audre Lorde or Jean Genet. $200, www.otherwild.com
Gender traitor sweatshirt
If your friends are more into pizza rolls than gender roles, this horror-inspired pullover from Autostraddle makes for a cozy and confrontational winter lewk. $48, www.hellomerch.com
