Something Joni Ernst said during a press conference this week shook me.
It wasn’t the type of comment that automatically leaps off the page. I didn’t even use it in my story on the press conference and its topic: new legislation designed to address sexual assault in the military.
But it stood out to me because of its raw, personal nature and how it showed exactly why sexual assault is a scourge that we must constantly combat.
The press conference, held outside Thursday in Washington, D.C., was called to highlight the legislation introduced by U.S. Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand, a Democrat from New York who has been working on the bill --- and the issue --- for eight years. The chief provision, among many in the bill, would remove the decision whether to prosecute a sexual assault allegation from the chain of command, handing it instead to an independent military prosecutor.
Ernst, Iowa’s Republican U.S. Senator who comes at the issue with a unique perspective because she is both a former military commander and a sexual assault survivor, has lent her support to the legislation and spoke at the press conference. It was when a reporter asked Ernst about her evolution on the bill --- Ernst in the past did not support the bill --- that Ernst said something that stuck with me.
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“I can tell you, Amy (Marsh, a victim of sexual assault in the military who also spoke at the press conference) can tell you that once that sexual assault has occurred, you can’t go back. You can’t change what has happened. As a survivor, you will relive that moment of your life over and over again, and I can tell you, it’s not positive,” Ernst said.
That’s gut-wrenching enough, but it may not have even been the most striking part of the quote. Ernst then added …
“I guarantee Amy and I would have a much more positive outlook on life and relationships if that sexual assault had never occurred.”
Let that one sink in.
Obviously sexual assault is a crime well worth working to prevent anywhere, including in the military. But if you needed one more reason, think about that Ernst quote. Think about the lasting damage those experiences have on victims.
A 2020 New Hampshire University study determined sexual assault survivors’ intimate relationships are clearly impacted. The study said some survivors were apprehensive about or avoiding dating; others ended up in abusive or unhealthy relationships, some of whom viewed the abusive behavior as normal; some were re-victimized; others said they were unable to emotionally connect with their partner, and viewed sex as insignificant or something that should be dangerous.
As awful a crime is sexual assault, the victim’s pain does not end after the assault. It can be a lifetime’s worth of torture.
As Joni Ernst and Amy Marsh can attest. Ernst’s comment was striking; so, too, was Marsh in the background, nodding along with every word.
Gillibrand praised Ernst for lending her support recently and Iowa’s other Republican U.S. Senator, Chuck Grassley, for his longtime support of the effort. Both Iowa Republicans returned the praise to Gillibrand, who has --- to borrow a word used regularly during the press conference --- relentlessly pursued legislation to address the topic.
Here’s hoping that, if the bill passes, it makes a dent in this plague on our society and our military, for many reasons, including those Ernst chillingly described.
Erin Murphy covers Iowa politics and government for Lee Enterprises. His email address is firstname.lastname@example.org. Follow him on Twitter at @ErinDMurphy.